Friday, February 12, 2016

How Do I Love Thee?

How do I Love Thee?

February 14th sometimes signifies the first day of Lent, depending upon the date of Easter, and is also Admission Day in Arizona. Most people however, celebrate the day by sending comic or heartfelt Valentines to family, friends and lovers. People seem to delight in St. Valentine’s Day, as florists, candy stores, boutiques and card shops do a rallying business providing heart-shaped novelties of all variety. Chocolate, long known for having properties that produce a euphoric feeling similar to the bittersweet emotion of love, seems an appropriate gift for St. Valentine’s Day.

The origin of the holiday is uncertain, but St. Valentine actually honors two Saints of the same name. One was a Roman priest martyred during the reign of the Emperor Claudius, the other, a martyred Bishop of Interramna. They were both buried in the Flaminian Way, which was later named the Gate of St. Valentine. Today the gate is known as Porta Del Popolo — the Gate of the People. The accounts of these men's lives are legendary, based on sparse historical fact. It is possible, researchers agree, that the legends denote different versions of the martyrdom of only one person. St. Valentine’s Day, as it is known today, is a lovers Festival, bearing no relation to these legends.

One theory as to how the name Valentine came to be applied to the day is founded on the belief in England that birds begin dating on February 14. Chaucer, in his “Parliament of Foules," says it like this: “for this was Seynt Valentyne’s day. When every  foul cometh to choose his mate." Those disagreeing with this claimed that the connection between lovers and St. Valentine stems from a similarity between the Norman word “galantin," meaning a lover of woman, and the name of the saint. Still another theory contends that the lover’s custom dates back to the pagan Roman feast of Lupercalia occurring in mid-February when  young Roman men and women placed their names in a love urn from which their names were drawn at random. During the upcoming year, the young men would be the escorts of the women whose names were matched to their own.

The Christian clergy objected to this pagan custom and substituted the names of saints. Each person, the clergy hoped, would strive to emulate the saint's name drawn for them. The drawings were held on February 14, the feast of St. Valentine. Yet the drawing of names by young people on St. Valentine's Day continued long after the Christianization of pagan rites had been abandoned. The boy and girl paired by the drawing adopted the practice of giving presents to each other. Later the boy only gave to the girl; so started the custom of sending Valentines to loved ones. St. Valentine's Day was widely celebrated in William Shakespeare's time, as this quote from Hamlet illustrates:

“Good morrow, ‘tis St. Valentine's Day,
        All in the morning betime,
   And I am made at your window,
        To be your Valentine." 

Paper Valentines with inscribed sentiments date from the 16th century. The first printed Valentine, issued in 1669, was probably inspired by “A Valentine Writer,” a book of verses offering help to those not articulate enough to pen their own rhymes. In England, the introduction of Penny postage and envelopes in 1840 popularized the exchange of Valentines and ornamental lace paper Valentines were in great demand. In the U. S., crude woodcut Valentines were fashioned by Robert H. Elton and Thomas W. Strong of New York, but most people preferred the lace paper cards imported from England.

With the establishment of the Post Office, the mail became swamped with Valentines each February. Comic Valentines, as well as coarse vulgar ones, cost only one cent. In the early 1900's, the Chicago post office rejected 25,000 cards on the grounds that they were improper for mail delivery. By the 1930s Valentine cards were primarily an activity for small children, who were taught to make the cards and decorations in kindergarten.

On one particularly gruesome Valentine's Day, the streets ran red with blood and the message given was not one of love. This notorious incident was “The St. Valentines Massacre," in Chicago on February 14, 1929. Al Capone’s gang, disguised as policemen, forced seven members of the rival “Bugs Moran” gang to stand against the garage wall with their arms raised. Capone’s mobsters methodically gunned the rival gang down.

In recent years, St. Valentine's Day continues to gain popularity, as lovers and children eagerly await its arrival; perhaps because it breaks the monotony of the long winter. However, not all people recognize the holiday. One husband whose name I will not mention, chooses to totally ignore St. Valentine's Day, even when it falls three days after his wedding anniversary — but that's another story.     



6 comments:

  1. Micki,
    "Valentine's Day" as it is celebrated now, as the day for lovers and couples, is an invention of "Hallmark". Years ago their sales volume sank and they declared "Valentine's Day" as a "lover's" holiday. Over the years it has been taken over as such nearly worldwide.
    Valentine of Terni, the later "Saint Valentine" was the patron saint of lovers. History teaches us that during his long life he had arranged quite some love-marriages only by his big heart and wonderful character. (Since he was an Italian Bishop living in the 3rd century, it might as well be possible he used some confessional secrets to accomplish these "miracles", but that will remain covered by the cloak of silence. Valentine of Terni has been decapitated by order of roman emperor Claudius Goticus.
    His body remained in the collection of the romain emperor, was later sold and given over to other nobles. Valentine of Terni later was canonized by the catholic church and his body became a rarity and a collector's relic.
    In his last will the venetian nobleman Johannes Delphin has handed over the skeleton to the German parish "Krumbach" and it was transported there around 1735.
    Since then the skeleton, dressed in beautiful robes is laying there in the church in a glass casket.
    Until this day it is unclear whether it really is the body of Valentine of Terni. But since St. Valentine has been the chrisitan patron of lovers for eternities, I figure "Hallmark" has done a quite amazing job picking this day for a lover's holiday.

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  2. Hi My Dear Friend,
    I enjoyed reading your article. I didn't know about Al Capone's gang shooting down the Bugs Moran Gang on Valentine's Day. I've read about the shooting but didn't know it was on this particular day.
    Thanks for an informative article.
    Shalom,
    Patricia

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  3. Happy Valentine's Day, Micki! Sending lots of love your way! xo

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  4. Thanks, Aurora for your addition to my research. We can be sure of one thing-- I was a religious holiday.
    Hugs, micki

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  5. Hi Pat, just wanted to add some Valentine history that was fairly recent. Love, Micki

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  6. Thanks Bette, I always love your visits. So much has happened since we last wrote that I have hesitated to lay it all on you at once and now you have a loss two. Praying for comfort in your family's sorrow.
    Hugs, Micki

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